How to include your au pair experience in your CV?
Laurie • 10/05/2022
We had the chance to talk several times over the last few months with Joyce, a bubbly 23-year-old Brazilian, an active member of the Express Yourself Au pair association, which frees up the voices of au pairs. She shares with us her feelings on her different au pair experiences and expresses without taboos her approach to living the au pair experience.
Hi, my name is Joyce, I’m 23 years old and I’m Brazilian. I was an AuPair in the U.S for 1 year and 9 months, 1 year on NY (Long Island) and 9 months on LA (Woodland Hills). I went back to Brazil for about 1 year and now I just started my third Aupair year in Belgium (Brussels) in February.
I wanted to be an AuPair in the U.S because since when I was 15 yo I knew I wanted to have the experience to travel abroad (mainly to the U.S at that time) and live there for a while if possible… learn English was my main purpose, but I also always wanted to travel a lot too and get to know as many places as I could.
So when I was 15 I found the Aupair program on Google and felt in love with it.
I started to plan everything even it was too early for that, I started to work with kids, I did volunteer work at a kindergarten and started an English course, when I was 18 I started the process to get my Drivers License and when I was 19 I got it and applied to be an AuPair, I had a match with 20 yo and that was the beggining of the most cool and important part/step of my life (till now lol)
Joyce
For me it was mostly the “feeling” (even tho it doesn’t happen with some people), but for me it was very important that I felt that the family was the right one, that I felt a good “vibe” talking to them.
For example, it would not work if the family had a “perfect” profile but when we talked on Skype I didn’t have any good feeling at all.
Joyce
But some other things were important too, like a comfortable bedroom, a schedule not too crazy, a family that seemed to respet the Aupair program rules (mainly about the Aupair tasks and schedule).
I didn’t care about the state or city for my first year, only for my second year that I really wanted Los Angeles.
Also I was looking for a family with a car (unless this family lived in a really big city with a really good public transportation.. which was not my case, so I had a car for both my families). P.s.: families don’t have to offer a car, they do if they want to or/and if hey have one available.
Now for Belgium it was kind of the same requirements, but one important thing for me was to find a family that was able to help me with the costs (because I had not much money to pay everything) and a family that would be kind to pay for my French course, and also to have the feeling that the family was a nice family and respected the rules as much as they could (even tho, again, we are never 100% sure if they will change throughout the year, but to have at least a good feeling helps a lot).
For the U.S I actually had not many concerns, I was just really happy that I was going to have that experience.. Maybe I was a bit afraid of the family don’t like me, fortunately it was not my case. I remember I was a bit afraid of them changing everything from what they’d told me via Skype (like change my schedule , not treating me well, etc.. which was not my case too).
For the U.S: they were always speaking slower, they showed me the house and their city and told me that I should feel like that was my house, I could circulate on it and go eat whenever I wanted, also that I could eat everything I wanted, they wanted me just to be comfortable.
For the U.S.: I actually didn’t need to integrate much, I’m not the kind of person who feels home sick so I wasn’t sad because I was missing my family or something like that.I integrated fast and easily in the American culture (I love the towns, cities, architecture, restaurants, coffee places and roadtrip culture), and for the language, on the beginning it’s was not too easy but with a month or so I was already “ok” and then a couple of months later I was even more happy with my English (I had a beginner/intermediate English in Brazil)
For sure it’s being easy going, but also enjoying being around kids (at least most of the days lol) and be a calm person, responsible.
Try to plan ahead of time, if you don’t have a drivers license make sure to get one, save money for visa other expenses and make sure you really are an easy going person and that the Au pair program is really what you wanna do, if you hesitate about the program, maybe it’s cause it’s not for you, at least now, maybe in the future.
Also ask everything for he family, don’t be ashamed to ask literally everything you want to, even if you think it may be “silly” for them.
And ALWAYS read the contracts and rules (agency, family contact, insurance, worker rights for the country you are going to live..everything), make sure you know your rights and stand for yourself, save the important emails/numbers, to call in case of any danger or/and difficult situations.
Joyce
And enjoy your AuPair year as much as you can
Joyce
Manuela · 21/03/2018
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